WHAT TO DO ON VALENTINES DAY?
Are you Single? Dating? In a relationship perhaps? Whatever your status is, do you have any plans for Valentines Day? I know that to some, it's just a regular day but to most of the lovers out there, it is a special day that they look forward to. To some of the girls, it is the day to receive bouquet of flowers, yummy chocolates and cuddly teddy bears. To some men, it is the day to express their love to their sweethearts. It's a day to surprise someone with something. To cut the chase, today I will be sharing what are the things to do on Valentines Day. Yes, just a little something that is worth sharing.
Are you Single? Don't fret or hate Valentines Day if you are single because Valentines Day isn't for Lovers only. It's for everybody. Trust me, you have all the reasons in the world to be HAPPY. So, what are the things to do on Valentines Day?
- Treat Yourself - Head over a salon, get a new look, pamper yourself and you'll feel better. You can also buy something for yourself, try to think of something that you wanted so bad and reward yourself for working so hard. What's better way to celebrate Valentines Day than to Love yourself right? You have to remember that before you can love someone, you have to love yourself first, but I'm not talking about loving yourself too much, just the right amount of LOVE that you deserve!
- Call your Best-friend - This is applicable if you're both single, what's better way to celebrate love month without a significant other is to celebrate it with your best pal. You can plan a trip together, Go somewhere, soul searching perhaps? Or just simply watch a movie with her, cry and laugh together it's perfect! For guys, there's always computer games, or watch basketball, or have a beer on your backyard, cook some barbecues it'll be fun!
- Surprise Your Mom/Dad - We won't be in this world without them, at least they deserve a treat on this very special day. Surprise them, take them out on a dinner or watch a movie together. You can also buy something for them, or write them a letter (I've done this before and it's really heart-warming to see them appreciate the little gift I gave them.) Even a simple letter will make them happy.
- If you're a single mom like me, bring your child somewhere. - Take them out, and spend some quality time with them. Buy them a toy or play with them, what makes them happy is what makes us 10x happier. Celebrating this special day with them means a lot already. :)
If you are single and you are asking yourself why? Well maybe because your story wasn't written yet, Always remember this....
Yes, it's truly worth the wait. Don't rush yourself into something or someone, One day, you'll find the answer why. You'll be able to figure things out, just be patient. :)
Are you seeing someone? Exclusively Dating? Because you are seeing someone exclusively that means you are special to him/her. Things to do on Valentines Day.
- For Girls, because you are in an exclusively dating zone, I think you know that you are special to the guy. If you know that he's sincere and true to his feelings and If you feel the same way then cut the chase! Say YES to him this valentines day, that would be the best gift for him.
- For Guys, Girls are sometimes unpredictable but one thing is for sure, they love surprises. Surprise her with a song, a love letter written in a paper and not send through text, a dance mob perhaps, or just a simple dinner date. Cook for her or make something that will make her SAY YES and end your exclusively dating status.
- If you're not ready to take it to the next level just enjoy each other's company. :)
In a relationship? What's perfect way to celebrate Valentines is with each other. You still have 6 days to plan the best date of your life this year.
- Again, girls love surprises, to all the guys who's not really born sweet and romantic I think you can do something extra special just for today. Be cheesy for her. Write her poems, love letters, or even compose a song for her, trust me IT ALWAYS WORK! Even a love letter written in a tissue paper will make her smile (it's always that little things that makes us really happy, even a HUGOT lines from movies will make her giggle)
- For girls, Men are born tough, but they always have that soft spot in their hearts. Surprise them! Be creative! You can also write a love letter, or make a scrap book of your relationship and how it started. Remind him on how grateful you are for having him around. Cook for him or Bake something for him, you know what they said, "a man's heart is through his stomach!"
- Make sure to have some quality time together, a romantic dinner will be perfect. I know this is really awkward but hey! Valentines Day happens one time in a year so just seize the moment. Dance with her/him. Imagine the song playing, never mind what other people would think if you're in a restaurant they are also having the time of their lives so just let them look at you.
- Talk and look at each other.. Say all the things you want him/her to know. Hug him/her and let her/him know that he/she is special.
And Remember to..
How about you? Do you have plans this Valentines Day?
27 Comentarios
Love reading this blog post, i do agree also that Valentine's Day is not only for lovers out there it's also for families and friends or a group of people in a community. ^^
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Thanks Ann! Yes, it really is :) I hope you'll celebrate your Valentines Day with your loved ones too :)
Deletereally nice post, i'm single and perfectly happy with it. i'll probably spend my day watching netflix haha
ReplyDeletedanielle | avec danielle
Haha! yes it'll be great dear! :) I think I'll be watching movies too :)
DeleteWaaaaahhhh!! As I was reading this this really struck me: Yes, it's truly worth the wait. Don't rush yourself into something or someone, One day, you'll find the answer why. You'll be able to figure things out, just be patient. :) --> I have a strong feeling this is for me! Haha. Yeah true love waits and that's true alright. :D :D
ReplyDeleteThank you for this te and looking forward to us celebrating Valentines Day! ^_^
Muah!
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haha I know right! I was actually thinking about you being so bitter about love, so yes, it's for you. hahahaha! Don't rush things dear, the right man will come trust me :)
DeleteNice tips Rica! As for my partner and I, we're planning to go on a simple date this Saturday because I'm pretty sure malls are jam-packed on the 14th so as to avoid stress and hassle na sad. Hehe.
ReplyDeletexx, Janine | Wandering Ella
Thanks Jan. Awe.. That's really sweet, I think what matters most is right beside each other. :) Keep the love burning!
DeleteThanks Ken :)
ReplyDeleteMy plan for this Valentine's Day is to spend the day with the 3 most important women in my life. Gonna cook something for them and probably do Movie Marathon.
ReplyDeleteNice tips Rica.. Well crafted one.
That's awesome Herbert! :) It's really great to spend time with loved ones :)
DeleteI'm planning to eat-out with my family. Am just as excited as those couples are - though am single. Heeeeeee. Well done, Rica! :)
ReplyDeleteawe :) same here!
DeleteNice tips! My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years and friends for almost a decade but we have never celebrated Valentines Day. I guess we're simply not the celebrating type. (because everyday is valentines day. Chos! Hahaha.) But we might try go out this time. Hehe.
ReplyDeletehehe, thanks Hannah :) It's okay, as long as you're always together :)
DeleteMy husband and I don't really go out on Valentine's. I guess we just want to avoid the crowd. Hehe. Most of the time we just cook at home. Whatever way is still nice as long as the essence is still there. :) Happy Valentine's Day to you Rica!
ReplyDeleteAwe.. most of us were really avoiding the crowd :) I think it's sweeter to celebrate it at home, cook for your hubby,set up a romantic dinner :) awe.. that's just really sweet.
DeleteMy partner's not here and we're actually celebrating our 6th Valentines oceans apart. LOL! Kidding. We don't celebrate V'days! I haven't actually even with my past relationships. Before my son came into my life, V'days are just another day to spend with family and friends. Nothing more special. Just yet, because he's too young to understand what his mom is doing for this day. LOL! Hoping and looking forward to a more special V'days in the future though. Happy Valentines to you sexy mom! Enjoy your day with your daughter :)
ReplyDeleteOh! LDR too. :) Thanks Che, I really had a wonderful Vday with my baby love. :)
DeleteI used to want my ex-boyfriend to give me flowers and chocolates on Valentines. Now that I have *matured*, I hate looking at my FB news feed. I think we shouldn't wait for Valentines Day to give something special to our loved ones, right? Oh yeah, my partner and I just stayed in the entire time and cuddled with our daughter -- nothing special about today. Haha.
ReplyDeletehaha! Me too. Actually, I think even simple efforts will always makes us smile not only on Valentines Day :)
DeleteIm a single lady for the past 3 years and I had always saw this day as freedom day. Why? Since this is the only time of the year that I can be all alone and pamper myself. I used to do a Valentine Climb with my ex's but then as I matured, I realize I don't need a guy to give me the happiness and satisfaction I am yearning in my life. :) I just treated myself for a food trip and it felt good. So Good. :)
ReplyDeleteNice! Although I'm not really good at celebrating this kind of occasion, I just leave my day as it is. After all, I still consider it as an ordinary day. Hahahaha. Bitter lang? :D
ReplyDeleteLooking forward to Valentines 2017. Hehe. :)
ReplyDeleteSingle or not, treating yourself is the very best thing to do! Just my two cents Rica. ^_^
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