I know I am way out of my blogging already but this time I wanted to do this post to some of the ladies who are experiencing heart breaks right now. Just this morning, a friend of mine told me about her sister's dilemma. Locking up herself in the room, sobbing in tears and totally depress about her relationship with her guy. The guy broke up with her and now her world turns upside down already. I know the feeling, trust me, I am no expert but I've been through a lot when we talk about love and relationships. It feels like you doesn't know what to do, and felt like you are trapped in the woods and doesn't have any idea which way to go.
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You feel like worthless and keep on asking yourself why? why is this happening to me? I love him that much and I did everything for him, but why? why did he left me? Why did he replaces me with someone else? What happened? What have I done wrong to deserve all of this?!
I have asked those questions a thousand times already. That certain moment where all I did was crying. I'm too helpless and have lost my willingness to live. Then one day, I woke up and have realized something. I have so many things to be thankful for than to complain and asked God why me? I started looking around and I found my family that loves me so much. They've been there for me every heart breaks that I've experienced. They were there when I was too weak to face the battle of life. They have showered me with love that no one else can give except them.
I look around again and I saw those people who suffered from pain for being sick and dying. Then I realized, I am too lucky to be healthy and alive. Life has more to offer than to sobbed and wanted to die. Right then I prayed and I thanked God for giving me a wonderful family and a healthy life. That wasn't the end of the world, but the beginning of a wonderful journey ahead. Now I know why did it happened, It happened to make me stronger. It happened because it is meant to happen, not to hurt you but to prepare you for the real battle. It happened because God has a plan for you, and he will soon reveal the right one for you. The one who is worth waiting for. The one who will love, respects and accept you for who you are. The one who will hold your hand and never let it go. The one who will not only laugh with you, but who will cry with you before wiping out your tears. The one who will truly love not only you but the people close to you as well. Be patient and always remember, "Everything happens for a reason". That's why I have patiently waiting for the man whom I can finally say "You're worth the wait". :) Don't be afraid to love again, for now cry if that will make you feel better but never say you wanted to die, because Life has so much to offer than to waste to people who are worthless and who doesn't deserve you.
To my friend's sister, be strong, if he left you don't beg for him to stay because he's not worth it. You deserve someone better than him. Always remember this..
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DeleteThis is a great post... relationships are so tough, and especially for girls it can be hard in these situations. That is why it is important to choose carefully who you date, and make sure they know from the beginning that you are both are serious. I've seen too many situations like this one... :(
ReplyDeleteYes dear... It is tough, all you have to bear in mind is to be strong as everything will passed by. :)
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